Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Why Do Women Cry During an Orgasm? At Last - The Real Reason For Men Who Want to Know!



I can't begin to tell you how many times I've been asked why women cry during an orgasm! It seems like such a strange phenomena to men....but ask any woman, and she'll give you enough reasons to fill a small loose leaf binder, and fast..:-) The real truth is that there are a number of different reasons why a woman can have a profoundly emotional experience during the throes of intense intimacy, but the good news is that MOST of those reasons are good! And if you've had a lot of different partners in your life, (or plan to) the truth that you WILL eventually find one who cries either before, during or AFTER orgasm! Let's look at some of the more common reasons below. Read on..:-)
Women are Emotional Creatures, and the Orgasm is an Emotional Experience!
Men simply don't experience orgasm the very same way as we do, therefore they are FAR more likely to feel JUST the physical phenomena that correlates with the experience. Alternatively, women simply FEEL the intensity of this sort of intimate release in ways that FAR transcend the physical, which brings a flood of all kinds of things to the surface....including tears of emotion. (which is usually a sign she's feeling close to you to boot!)
But sometimes it can be......
A sign of guilt! Or shame. Or even embarrassment. Everyone has their own "stuff" and baggage, and often times crying during orgasm is a sign that she may have issues regarding any of the above. Do you know her well? Are you in an exclusive relationship....or might she also be intimate with someone else? Often times women have guilt issues as they pertain to sexuality, and this sort of response is a textbook reaction to not feeling worthy of having had a VERY pleasurable sexual experience.
As always...the KEY is to ask and find out! Trust me, nothing is sexier than a man who wants to know!
And One Last thing.....Remember:
Women admit that they would prefer a man who COMMUNICATES passionately during sex (which means she wants a little lusty dialogue..:-), they want you to learn the landscape a bit better ( understand her body) and they PREFER a man who has a powerful anatomy (a thicker penis is preferable) You can improve all three of these with JUST a little effort..and in my experience, the REWARDS they offer are EACH worth their weight in earth shaking orgasmic gold..:-)

1 comment:

Unknown said...

Being the woman that knows this experience all too well, I can tell you this spot on. It is a overwhelming amount of emotion when you completely let go in the intense moment of passion. That orgasm to me seems to reach the core of me and tears will flood the pillowcase.this does not happen every time I have an orgasm. But when it does happen it is a wonderful, spectacular, mind blowing experience. I'm glad it doesn't happen all the time because it makes it all the more special to me. So, men need to know if this happens with your lady it is quite a gift.