Sunday, October 19, 2008

Sex Positions - 2 Factors You Need to Consider in Order to Give Your Woman Stunning Orgasms



Sex positions can either enhance a lovemaking session, or it can turn it into a nightmare. Let us take a look at how you can improve yours and your partner's sexual experience by understanding how to correctly approach any type of sex position;
One of the biggest mistakes men make, is by trying out a sex position without any clue as to how to use it correctly, or what it's advantages or disadvantages are.
There are certain factors you should always consider;
What type of orgasm are you trying to help your woman achieve? For instance, if you would like to give your woman a clitoral orgasm, the "woman on top" would be one of the best positions to do the job. This is because it enables your woman to easily angle your penis so that it can rub against her clitoris, thus giving it enough stimulation to reach a clitoral orgasm.
How does your woman feel about certain positions? You might love the idea of doing "doggie style" with her because you find it makes your woman look sexier. However, your partner might not like the lack of intimacy that the position offers. Maybe she prefers a "face to face" sex position instead.
So, in order to get the best of any position, it is important that you first decide what your end goal is, and how your woman feels about the position you wish to try out. The best way to achieve this is by always keeping the communication lines open between you and your partner. Remember, it is always important that both parties are having fun. This will ensure that you and your partner can have an exhilarating sexual experience.

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Why Do Women Cry During an Orgasm? At Last - The Real Reason For Men Who Want to Know!



I can't begin to tell you how many times I've been asked why women cry during an orgasm! It seems like such a strange phenomena to men....but ask any woman, and she'll give you enough reasons to fill a small loose leaf binder, and fast..:-) The real truth is that there are a number of different reasons why a woman can have a profoundly emotional experience during the throes of intense intimacy, but the good news is that MOST of those reasons are good! And if you've had a lot of different partners in your life, (or plan to) the truth that you WILL eventually find one who cries either before, during or AFTER orgasm! Let's look at some of the more common reasons below. Read on..:-)
Women are Emotional Creatures, and the Orgasm is an Emotional Experience!
Men simply don't experience orgasm the very same way as we do, therefore they are FAR more likely to feel JUST the physical phenomena that correlates with the experience. Alternatively, women simply FEEL the intensity of this sort of intimate release in ways that FAR transcend the physical, which brings a flood of all kinds of things to the surface....including tears of emotion. (which is usually a sign she's feeling close to you to boot!)
But sometimes it can be......
A sign of guilt! Or shame. Or even embarrassment. Everyone has their own "stuff" and baggage, and often times crying during orgasm is a sign that she may have issues regarding any of the above. Do you know her well? Are you in an exclusive relationship....or might she also be intimate with someone else? Often times women have guilt issues as they pertain to sexuality, and this sort of response is a textbook reaction to not feeling worthy of having had a VERY pleasurable sexual experience.
As always...the KEY is to ask and find out! Trust me, nothing is sexier than a man who wants to know!
And One Last thing.....Remember:
Women admit that they would prefer a man who COMMUNICATES passionately during sex (which means she wants a little lusty dialogue..:-), they want you to learn the landscape a bit better ( understand her body) and they PREFER a man who has a powerful anatomy (a thicker penis is preferable) You can improve all three of these with JUST a little effort..and in my experience, the REWARDS they offer are EACH worth their weight in earth shaking orgasmic gold..:-)